He might be the one for you....

Being in a relationship is difficult these days. You see, we’re humans, and humans are nurturing. Well, a few of us are — mostly the females. It’s natural for us to want love and affection straight off the bat, often because we crave reassurance.
Females, whether they admit to it or not, enjoy being pampered. No, that doesn’t mean you have to buy us manicure/pedicure packages or flowers every week. What I mean by being pampered is showing positive emotion and sweet gestures every once in a while, maybe even once or twice a week.
A nice text every day works or even a FaceTime call. When a girl feels comfortable with her trust in you, it’s smooth sailing from then on.
We’ve all dated different types of guys and all of them are in our past for a reason. You may have had a guy who gave you all of his attention and suffocated you with his overbearing kindness.
You’ve probably also dated a guy who didn’t give you constant attention while you were both apart, but reassured you when you were together. You’ve definitely dated a guy who just didn’t give a sh*t.
In any case, you ended the relationship because one of you wasn’t happy.
There are four different types of guys in this world. Let me list and explain below:

1. The guy who immediately shows you he cares and caters to your every need

This guy gives me anxiety. Women don’t want to feel as though they are dating their girlfriends. Showing all of their love and affection after day one ruins the mystery and fun in the relationship.
Being available is heartwarming at first, but if you are available every single day and show up with flowers while reciting poems to us, we will definitely split. Don’t get me wrong; some women love this, but females like a good challenge. We want to learn something new about you every day, not in one day.

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2. The guy who never shows you he cares

This guy is just an assh*le. If you have been talking or dating for months and you’ve completely opened up to him, but he hasn’t done one cute sentimental thing for you, don’t bother.
If he doesn’t comfort you now, he just won’t comfort you in the long run. When a guy likes a girl, he will make the effort to impress her. If he doesn’t hug you, kiss you or hold your hand, get the f*ck away from him. He will only keep you emotionally unstable and feeling undesirable.

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3. The guy who cares but then ends up quitting

Some guys put all of their time and effort in a girl and then just quit after they get what they wanted. I’m pretty sure this is the most common type of male we encounter in our college days and in our 20s.
This guy makes us believe that he’s the one, and as soon as we show him that he has the key to our hearts, he has lost interest. This is the type of guy we question the most in our heads, and we take this heartbreak to the grave because we usually end up blaming ourselves for this relationship ending.

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4. The guy who doesn’t rush, but continuously shows you he cares and teaches you that patience is a good thing

This is a great guy. In the beginning, he will showcase his kindness and respect for you because he doesn’t want to ruin things with you. He picks up the phone and texts you a few times a day letting you know he is thinking about you.
He sets up dates in advance because he knows it will mean much more when you have something to look forward to all day. He’s not afraid to bring you out with his friends and give you occasional kisses on the cheek (because saving the rest of your chemical attraction for the private eye is sexier).
Most importantly, he reassures you that he still digs you, even when you don’t have to ask for it. This guy doesn’t rush into things too quickly or give up; he is happy when you are.
Being in a relationship means working together in sync. You’ll know your partner is the right one when he is willing to make things work with you instead of running away.
In order to find the right one, you have to eliminate the wrong ones. Get them in and out of your life fast because once you go through terrible emotions over someone who isn’t worth your time, you will realize what you want and don’t want in a serious relationship.
Happiness is the key to a successful relationship. When you find the right one, you will know. It won’t be easy, but as long as you two are working together, it will definitely be worth it.


Based on this article, i knew the guy that i have looks like... 
So find your guy type and thanks God you have the right one guy in your life...
 

Let it go or stuck on it forever

Sometimes, we're stuck in the past time or it commandeers our daydreams or it looks like a shadow in our daily life. To moving forward, we need the right key to unlock our chains that bind our feet in the past time. We have the key in ourselves but it depends us, we want to try find the key or not. 

Remember about the padlock and strive to find the right way to get free from the past. Is there anything you can't get over? Yes and no. You don't get over it, but you might find a different place to put it. You don't forget it, but the thought no longer intrudes. You don't pretend it wasn't bad, but you have a sense that you can heal. We don't get over the past. The ability to focus on the present,what we have now, and design our bright future is the right way to improvement.The best way is a mindfullness... Controlling your mind and make some practice to note in a nonjudgemental way the thought and sensations during the moments...

Reflection Of The Day: Born to be Army of God

Have we realized that God created us for a reason????

We lived in this world for God plans, and we didnt know what He planned to be for us...

Whatever about His planned,just trust that  His plans are good for us...God put us in a place, not without reason. He has a plan, maybe he wants to use us in that place for a change or even something that we never imagined.

We should remember that we are The children of God,we are His student and His children...He wants us to come to Him and always remember His name in everytime. Come to Him, and we will know His reason, come and pray to Him,and we will get an amazing experience, and get a surprise from Him....

He always makes everything beautiful in His time...And His plan never make you feel upset, but the happiness that you will get...

A song from Memphis

He did it again...!
always make me smile and make me happy more than before..and make me always say,"thank God, this may happens to me...".
Memphis gave to me a nice words to hear everyday..

Who is this beautiful girl (I--know--her---)
Sunrise, sunset, this moon is so bright (where--is-she-----)
She is my love, and these times might be dark.
I'll find you (this love--) (this love---)
It is a spark...
Oh, we see, our hearts have joined...
My sweet love, this path is ours (to love--we go---)
You are the other half, this is to cherish.
Her smile, her laugh, her beauty, and-- she is my friend.
(Oh love) when comes the day, what will i say--
But love, if it's okay (can i please stay--) in your heart--

Thanks for dear who gave it to me...:)

Around you

Everything happens for a reason...and im really sure that there is any kind of amazing reason why i meet some "weird" friends, meet some mean girl friends, and meet many kind of people. Having many different typical kind of friends is a kind of amazing moments in life...one problem that i've shared to them, i got many differences feed back...meet some friends when you've got a problem, it can helps you to find a way out for your problem...many signs can be shown as a form of escape...when you've got a problem, dont ever limit yourself to go out and meet everyone outside..because sometimes God using the people who are outside from your mind to help you...they are around you, you just need a little space to realize and see it if they're around you...

"The beautiful painting comes from many different kind of forms and colors that are not measurable..."

-R-

Take it or leave it

what do u do when u get two great things at the same time??
Then, how if it is a part in you???...how if the things like impossible to do in the same time, such as it's like impossible as the captain who sailed with two ships. It's impossible, right...
It's a part in you..., such as the one thing as your physically and the other as your soul...
When you are in that position, its the best part in your life...You can see how brave you are to take the thing and leave another.
Although it's difficult to choose but it might be wise to accept the consequences of what we choose...

“There are no safe choices. Only other choices.” 
- Libba Bray-

check self out

Sometimes as a human, we often looking another person behave before we see about ourselves first....we are hard to check ourselves first...it's easy to find the bad things from other but we never see about us...we often say,"you are the problem naker," but we're in that problem..or we often say,"how terrible this world..." but we are in this world...we often say,"this world is disgusting no humanity anymore in this world..." but let we see, who is the creator from this chaos????....the people, and you are the people too....

Check ourselves first, before we judge another....we are just a human...only God can judge the people, not me or you...nobody's perfect in this world...we are here to complement each other...:)...

Reflection of the day: The Power of His Name

We praying under His Name...didyou know praying in Jesus name expresses our:

- Authority to petition God, He has instructed us to come and ask for what we need. These words give us the authorization to enter the throne room of grace at any time and speak personally with the Father. To everyone who has received Jesus Christ as Savior, the Lord has granted the right to use His name.

- Agreement with God's purpose, it means that no complain with God answer....we must also agree with His purpose.

-Assurance of an answer. "In Jesus name" is a phrase of confidence.It is a confession of certainty that our prayers will be heard and answered....

God doesn't want prayer to become a rote exercise. "In Jesus name", it isn't just a formula... Let them be powerful reminder of whose you are and the privilege of being involved in His work. Prayer is a mighty prerogative of the children of God.

reflection of this day: a moment of weakness

As a human, we have many problems in our life...We all face key moments of decision, when our actions can lead to lasting consequences. The issue is will you be ready when such a time comes?

We can guard ourselves against these moments of weakness by remembering one simple word:H-A-L-T

H = Hungry...

Never allow yourself to get too hungry..When your body is weak from lack of food, poor decision are likely to follow. Respect your body and provide the sustenance it needs...

A= Angry...

Oooppsss....is it a thing that always exist in your daily life???..hmm...if it is......starts fromnow, dont permit yourself to get too angry. Anger can cloud judgement and lead to regrettable decision....

L= Lonely...

dont let yourself become too lonely. When feel like nobody cares about you or when you feel isolated, you may find yourself  willing to do almost anything to feel accepted or loved...

T= Tired...

Dont allow yourself to get too tired... Sleep is essential for wise decisions. When you dont have a time to sleep, it means that the poor choices become probable....

Commit now never to make important decisions when you are too hungry, angry, lonely, and tired. Delay the decision until you can approach it with prayer, patience,and Godly wisdom...

reflection of the day: The Choice

The choice..hmmm..it's about a decision what we make...so many choices in this world...
God described two roads, which lead in opposite directions...
One is a broad highway,where most people travel. It's an easy journey,requiring few commitments,and allowing all kinds of philosophies. Everything is acceptable in this way, so people are free to be self-indulgent and choose what they each think is best.
Second road is narrow. It has small entrance. Travelling on this path requires a commitment to the Savior and lifestyle of dependence, sacrifice, and trust.

So, what will we choose..???one road with a broad highway or second way as narrow...??? that's your choice....God has give us His sacrifice, what will you choose..???...
Each of us must choose which path to take: the wide one, that ends in hopelessness and eternal separation from the Lord, or the narrow one leading to life everlasting...:)

reflection of the day: Praying...

Praying...is it a simple thing to do ???..yeah...it is...but why we cant do that in our daily life???...

hmmm...maybe , we ever had pray and God never give the answer or maybe because im pray about A, but God gives me B...ouchh....

God pointed out that power is attached to prayer offered this way," The Father will give you whatever you ask in MY NAME." (John 15:16)...Prayer in His name means we're declaring our:

a.) Association with the Savior. What makes it possible for us to approach God through prayer is our relationship with God. He always hears our requests because we have been made family through the redemptive work of His Son.

b) Access to the Father. Jesus death opened the way for us to have immediate unhindered admittance to the Father's presence. Through the Holy Spirit, we have the right to talk to God directly without a human intermedary (Eph.2:18)..

So, based on this things, we didnt have any reasons to not praying again... God has opened the way for us to free talk with Him everytime , He never sleep...He always hear you....Jesus fully paid the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross. Accepting His atoning death on our behalf means we are in a new family relationship and we have unhindered access to the Father....:)..Keep praying...:)

reflection today : Obeying God

Human minds or God plans...???.....what do you think about it...???...

Sometimes, in our lives....we must decide whether to do what is sensible by human standards or to obey God....And, sometimes God asks His children to act in different ways that may not seem logical. His request might involve leaving a job or ministry that He provided only recently, taking on more responsibility when life already feels overloaded, or accepting an assignment that appears better suited for someone with a different skill set. His plans makes no sense in view of age, finance, or health. We can see from the Bible, the bible talks about many people who had to make such a choice. They are Abraham was asked to sacrifice his son, Noah was told to build an ark on dry land because a flood was coming, Gideon, the inexperienced fighter was told to send most of his warriors home before the battle,and Joshua was given a military strategy of marching around Jericho instead of attacking it....See, we have to see many example about the choice from God....As a human, dont make the mistake of allowing human logic to dictate whether you follow God's plan. When we choose to obey what He was saying, we have an experienced divine power released on their behalf...So, trust in Him...and you will see, how Great He is...:)

Reflection today: Spirit of conquers

We need this same kind of spirit if we hope to finish well:
1.) Courage, is willing to risk failure...Though we naturally want to appear strong and capable,God delights in empowering us in our weakness...So, dont be afraid with anything...We have amazing God and great of God...:D
2.) Confidence, when our confidence is placed in the Lord instead ofin ourselves, we can move ahead, knowing that He'll enable us to do His well....So, check yourself,first...you really have trust on Him or not....??? :)
3.) Commitment, even God promises to guide us as we run the race and provided whatever is needed and strengthen as along the way, we must be committed to Him and determined to carry out His will...
4.)Persistence, we need to "press on' through hardship toward that which is of eternal value...so, keep trying and you will see a magical...:)
5.)Forward focus, forget what lies behind and reach forward to what lies ahead....If we still standing behind, we'll lose sight of the goal....so,keep move on....you live for future not for the past....past is just a sign to come to the future...:)...

And, finally, the important key to success in this race is a desire to reach the goal..:)

Enjoy the daily life....:)

Reflection : Maintaining Joy (Psalm 40:16)

Happy New Year...Welcome 2014....:)
I hope everything's will be fine and all of my dreams come true...:)

The Joy...is it difficult to make it stay in your days...??? is it a difficult things to pass your everyday with joyfulness..???...maybe, we can say"Yes"...and it is...
Joy is a gift from God that enables believers to find hope and peace. But sometimes, there's always have a reason to Christiant live joylessly..The reasons are sinful behavior, regret about past, fear of future, or a pattern of discontentment....
If we're a follower of Jesus but we lost or lack of gladness, take a moment to remember who Christ is and who you are in Him...His love is unconditional, ad the Holy Spirit will never leaving you alone...He understands everything that you face and promises to provide for your needs...

Maybe, sadness will be exist in our life, but the joy of the Lord will carry us through even the deepest pain....:)....