Selasa, 13 Januari 2015

Make it worth and real

Long distance relationship, sounds impossible to be real or definitely risky. Just because of this reason, doesnt mean this kind of relationship cant be working. This is just need a little more trust, patience,and God to help you to make it be real. 

Tips
  • Tell them every day that you love them. Remind them that they are the best thing that has happened to you and that you they always on your mind.Distance can sometimes make you question each other's feelings, so make sure they know it every day.
  • Sometimes phone/email/IM communication can get bland. Don't forget there are other ways to interact! Use the internet and find things you both can do together. It takes the pressure off, it gives you a break from constant talking, and it can be fun.
  • Send or mail a surprise of balloons, flowers, or a special gift now and then. If a physical gift isn't practical, send a handwritten letter or even an e-card.
  • Make plans to see each other again before you part. It makes the separations much easier if you know when you'll see each other again.
  • Make a creative countdown and mail it to your partner to enjoy until you see each other next. For example, create a photo calendar, with something you add for each day to describe what you love about them.
  • Spice things up by meeting halfway (if it's within a reasonable distance) to grab a bite to eat or get some coffee. This is a great alternative if you're not able to dedicate an entire weekend with your significant other. Or share a vacation now and then in a place that is new to you both.
  • Make sure you are willing to be in a long distance relationship before entering one.
  • Don't expect your long distance relationship to be perfect. Every relationship will have a few bumps in the road, and those bumps can seem magnified by your distance.
  • When your partner contacts you, reply as promptly as you can. If your partner isn't replying, wait patiently and understand that your partner may be busy at that moment.
  • Consider with somebody. Having a roommate or family member around can help keep you from being lonely.
Warnings:
  • There will always be people who say that long distance relationships won't work. Just remember that they are not the people who are in the relationship, and they don't determine what you can and cannot do.
  • Long distance relationships can and will test you and your partner; you need to trust him/her entirely, don't let paranoia bring down your relationship.
  • It's easier to get into arguments in a long-distance relationship, because you can't always discern what someone's actual tone is through text. It's also a lot easier to say hurtful things when you're not face-to-face, but the words can hurt just the same. Take special care to watch how you interpret their words (for it might not be what they meant), and what you say when you're angry.
  • Long distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. They can be very trying, but so can proximal relationships.

Nothing is impossible when you believe it will be happen.Let's make it worth...

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