Siluet

Pekatnya malam mengharu biru si jagat raya

Kilauan putih sang kalbu seakan menghias malam

Ribuan siluet tergores asal dalam tiap pejaman mata

Lantunan simfoni indah terdengar dari Kumpulan jeritan nelangsa, seolah bersatu padu 'tuk ubah goresan siluet

Tak hentinya jeritan nelangsa berdaung indah memandu tiap goresan menari indah membentuk sebuah lukisan siluet nyata dalam kilauan kalbu

-rkw-

Valentine from Memphis

What is love?

What is love, really?

There has to be more than what I've seen. What I see is not for the keen. Thy soul shines one aura of connection. May it receive, may it relate, and may it wonder to illustrate these many steps to eternity. What title may I call this phenomenon? Such more than love. An unspeakable force, beyond all sense. When all hope is dead. These things we perceive, they might see. I hope you see what I feel. Get the feeling first. Follow your heart. I follows this. May it guide you on your own. Are you ready for the pulse of an ominous altering breath. Was it for this moment? Take a second now, hold yours. May it synchronize. Harmony playing in our souls, such ecstasy. We dance with no care. There is no tire in our steps. See this now. Now...you are here. You're my heart. I am yours. I'm so glad you can make it. We will be settled soon. Your feet are tired now. Are you now realizing you are here. Be still my love and walk to the waves. You're smile might make us fly. Your soul, yes. This is us. It's not just what we see that we were after, a along. This is it. Our souls dancing after we drink more tea. My soul stays here. I hope yours does too. Now you see. I wouldn't miss this moment.

Leaving On A Jetplan

All my bags are packed, im ready to go...
I'm standing here, outside the door...
I hate to wake me up and say goodbye for my past...
Now, im leaving on a jetplan and i know i will never back again...
What for, leaving on a jetplan but still bring the bags...
The bags which bring all of the past, thats why i still feel heavy on my back...
Can i turn back and put them all..?
Of course, i can...but i dont have any time to stay long in there, only have a time to put them all...
Then,i turn back and should go now...
Now, heavy the burdens has been mild but the memory still exist inside...

Make it worth and real

Long distance relationship, sounds impossible to be real or definitely risky. Just because of this reason, doesnt mean this kind of relationship cant be working. This is just need a little more trust, patience,and God to help you to make it be real. 

Tips

• Tell them every day that you love them. Remind them that they are the best thing that has happened to you and that you they always on your mind.Distance can sometimes make you question each other's feelings, so make sure they know it every day.
• Sometimes phone/email/IM communication can get bland. Don't forget there are other ways to interact! Use the internet and find things you both can do together. It takes the pressure off, it gives you a break from constant talking, and it can be fun.
• Send or mail a surprise of balloons, flowers, or a special gift now and then. If a physical gift isn't practical, send a handwritten letter or even an e-card.
• Make plans to see each other again before you part. It makes the separations much easier if you know when you'll see each other again.
• Make a creative countdown and mail it to your partner to enjoy until you see each other next. For example, create a photo calendar, with something you add for each day to describe what you love about them.
• Spice things up by meeting halfway (if it's within a reasonable distance) to grab a bite to eat or get some coffee. This is a great alternative if you're not able to dedicate an entire weekend with your significant other. Or share a vacation now and then in a place that is new to you both.
• Make sure you are willing to be in a long distance relationship before entering one.
• Don't expect your long distance relationship to be perfect. Every relationship will have a few bumps in the road, and those bumps can seem magnified by your distance.
• When your partner contacts you, reply as promptly as you can. If your partner isn't replying, wait patiently and understand that your partner may be busy at that moment.
• Consider with somebody. Having a roommate or family member around can help keep you from being lonely.

Warnings:

• There will always be people who say that long distance relationships won't work. Just remember that they are not the people who are in the relationship, and they don't determine what you can and cannot do.
• Long distance relationships can and will test you and your partner; you need to trust him/her entirely, don't let paranoia bring down your relationship.
• It's easier to get into arguments in a long-distance relationship, because you can't always discern what someone's actual tone is through text. It's also a lot easier to say hurtful things when you're not face-to-face, but the words can hurt just the same. Take special care to watch how you interpret their words (for it might not be what they meant), and what you say when you're angry.
• Long distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. They can be very trying, but so can proximal relationships.

Nothing is impossible when you believe it will be happen.Let's make it worth...

not my plan list

Someone told me like this," In the end, its not going to matter how many breaths you took but how many moments took your breath away."
As long as i can breathe, this is my list of the moment that i want in my life this year:

1.) Completing my service commitment
2.) Passport in my hand
3.) Keep my relationship
4.) Tango dance practice
5.) Trip to Derawan
6.) Ubud/Bali refreshing day
7.) Ready to Weh Island
8.) Focus on a single point
9.) Meet each other
10.) Bearhug can be exist

10 greatest moments that will be happening in this year, make it true...

*)pray, positive thinking, and hard work

Peacefully and Warm smile,

Ruth

Chance

Dear my new year,

Starting a new chapter of my life, re-check my latest list from the latest year, making a new year list, looking deep inside of my soul, think more deeply, and say,"what else? or what next?".

Thinking more, more, and more.

Then, i realized something was missing in the last year, one pieces of my soul.

Try to rediscovery and try to implanting them deep in my heart and just hoping i will not losing it all back. Just close my eyes and my ears from all of this noisy voices, from all of this feeling inside, just need to hear a peacefulness voice. Need it more for this new chapter. Listening and seeing more than talking more. Trying to speak through the words. That's it, what i need to maintain my commitment and my focus for this chapter.

WPL,

He might be the one for you....

Being in a relationship is difficult these days. You see, we’re humans, and humans are nurturing. Well, a few of us are — mostly the females. It’s natural for us to want love and affection straight off the bat, often because we crave reassurance.
Females, whether they admit to it or not, enjoy being pampered. No, that doesn’t mean you have to buy us manicure/pedicure packages or flowers every week. What I mean by being pampered is showing positive emotion and sweet gestures every once in a while, maybe even once or twice a week.
A nice text every day works or even a FaceTime call. When a girl feels comfortable with her trust in you, it’s smooth sailing from then on.
We’ve all dated different types of guys and all of them are in our past for a reason. You may have had a guy who gave you all of his attention and suffocated you with his overbearing kindness.
You’ve probably also dated a guy who didn’t give you constant attention while you were both apart, but reassured you when you were together. You’ve definitely dated a guy who just didn’t give a sh*t.
In any case, you ended the relationship because one of you wasn’t happy.
There are four different types of guys in this world. Let me list and explain below:

1. The guy who immediately shows you he cares and caters to your every need

This guy gives me anxiety. Women don’t want to feel as though they are dating their girlfriends. Showing all of their love and affection after day one ruins the mystery and fun in the relationship.
Being available is heartwarming at first, but if you are available every single day and show up with flowers while reciting poems to us, we will definitely split. Don’t get me wrong; some women love this, but females like a good challenge. We want to learn something new about you every day, not in one day.

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2. The guy who never shows you he cares

This guy is just an assh*le. If you have been talking or dating for months and you’ve completely opened up to him, but he hasn’t done one cute sentimental thing for you, don’t bother.
If he doesn’t comfort you now, he just won’t comfort you in the long run. When a guy likes a girl, he will make the effort to impress her. If he doesn’t hug you, kiss you or hold your hand, get the f*ck away from him. He will only keep you emotionally unstable and feeling undesirable.

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3. The guy who cares but then ends up quitting

Some guys put all of their time and effort in a girl and then just quit after they get what they wanted. I’m pretty sure this is the most common type of male we encounter in our college days and in our 20s.
This guy makes us believe that he’s the one, and as soon as we show him that he has the key to our hearts, he has lost interest. This is the type of guy we question the most in our heads, and we take this heartbreak to the grave because we usually end up blaming ourselves for this relationship ending.

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4. The guy who doesn’t rush, but continuously shows you he cares and teaches you that patience is a good thing

This is a great guy. In the beginning, he will showcase his kindness and respect for you because he doesn’t want to ruin things with you. He picks up the phone and texts you a few times a day letting you know he is thinking about you.
He sets up dates in advance because he knows it will mean much more when you have something to look forward to all day. He’s not afraid to bring you out with his friends and give you occasional kisses on the cheek (because saving the rest of your chemical attraction for the private eye is sexier).
Most importantly, he reassures you that he still digs you, even when you don’t have to ask for it. This guy doesn’t rush into things too quickly or give up; he is happy when you are.
Being in a relationship means working together in sync. You’ll know your partner is the right one when he is willing to make things work with you instead of running away.
In order to find the right one, you have to eliminate the wrong ones. Get them in and out of your life fast because once you go through terrible emotions over someone who isn’t worth your time, you will realize what you want and don’t want in a serious relationship.
Happiness is the key to a successful relationship. When you find the right one, you will know. It won’t be easy, but as long as you two are working together, it will definitely be worth it.


Based on this article, i knew the guy that i have looks like... 
So find your guy type and thanks God you have the right one guy in your life...